Finite Love
Inquiry, published online 2024.
Abstract
Love can be merited, and it is merited by a person's intrinsically valuable qualities. What matters is not that such qualities can be ranked against one another, but that they are gradable: to merit love is to meet a threshold of value. Discerning where those thresholds lie, and who meets them, takes practical wisdom. Since our capacity to love is finite, such judgments belong at the center of philosophizing about love rather than at its margins.